I suck at shopping with women. I stopped years ago
because it’s just so frustrating. They finger through clothes, they try
on shit they won’t even consider buying and it ends up taking forever. I
see a shirt I like, I grab it, buy it, and wear it until it doesn’t fit
me anymore. Strangely enough, this is almost exactly how I pick a girl.
I am not comparing a girl to a shirt… follow me.
“We had been friends for a couple of years and then one day something clicked and I totally started falling in love.” -This is a statement I would never make. Not just because I would sound like a pussy, but because women don’t grow on me. You see, within 10 minutes of seeing a girl I could know instantly the answer to one question: “Could this girl qualify as the last girl I ever kiss, and sex with.”
Being with an insanely hot girl once can be a curse, because it raises the bar for what a guy thinks he can achieve from a looks standpoint. Even if a girl like that throws a guy a mercy bang, from that moment on, superficial pricks like us think committing to anything less is settling.
The bottom line is that I just don’t see the point of being in a committed relationship if I am going to cheat. So, physical appearance is important off the bat because even if a girl turns out to be cool as hell, if I don’t find her immensely attractive, I will always want to hook up with someone who I perceive is more physically attractive. Relax, I am not saying she has to be the best looking girl I can get…
What I am saying is that the physical attraction has to be intense from the start. Thats simply to qualify. In order for it to continue, she has to be cool. For it to be a relationship she has to be fun, a good conversationalist, nice, maternal, and have a healthy sex drive. If she has all these things, along with that intense physical attraction, I will be as faithful as a fucking robot even if a super model were to come along.
But here is the catch. Say she was all of those things. Fun, a good conversationalist, nice maternal, and has a sexy health drive (yeah I flipped that shit), if the initial attraction wasn’t there in the first 10 minutes, I never would take the time to find out. When I know… I know.
It’s almost stupid. I can meet a girl for this first time. Look at her face and picture her in a million scenarios like family picnics, vacations, snuggling on the couch, what my kids look like and all of that shit. And I am in the palm of her hand at that very moment. All she has to do, is not fuck it up. Cause if I look at a girl that way… I won’t fuck it up. Thats after 10 minutes.
I am not comparing a girl to a shirt… follow me.
“We had been friends for a couple of years and then one day something clicked and I totally started falling in love.” -This is a statement I would never make. Not just because I would sound like a pussy, but because women don’t grow on me. You see, within 10 minutes of seeing a girl I could know instantly the answer to one question: “Could this girl qualify as the last girl I ever kiss, and sex with.”
Being with an insanely hot girl once can be a curse, because it raises the bar for what a guy thinks he can achieve from a looks standpoint. Even if a girl like that throws a guy a mercy bang, from that moment on, superficial pricks like us think committing to anything less is settling.
The bottom line is that I just don’t see the point of being in a committed relationship if I am going to cheat. So, physical appearance is important off the bat because even if a girl turns out to be cool as hell, if I don’t find her immensely attractive, I will always want to hook up with someone who I perceive is more physically attractive. Relax, I am not saying she has to be the best looking girl I can get…
What I am saying is that the physical attraction has to be intense from the start. Thats simply to qualify. In order for it to continue, she has to be cool. For it to be a relationship she has to be fun, a good conversationalist, nice, maternal, and have a healthy sex drive. If she has all these things, along with that intense physical attraction, I will be as faithful as a fucking robot even if a super model were to come along.
But here is the catch. Say she was all of those things. Fun, a good conversationalist, nice maternal, and has a sexy health drive (yeah I flipped that shit), if the initial attraction wasn’t there in the first 10 minutes, I never would take the time to find out. When I know… I know.
It’s almost stupid. I can meet a girl for this first time. Look at her face and picture her in a million scenarios like family picnics, vacations, snuggling on the couch, what my kids look like and all of that shit. And I am in the palm of her hand at that very moment. All she has to do, is not fuck it up. Cause if I look at a girl that way… I won’t fuck it up. Thats after 10 minutes.
